We're halfway there, y'all (I feel like such a faker trying to say "y'all"...it doesn't even sound right when I type it)!
The sun is finally out again this morning and I'm feeling optimistic about today. It was a pretty gloomy day yesterday and I think it affected all of our moods. By the end of the day I was in b*tch mode and needed to get out, so Grace and I made our way to the gym for a quickie run. I'm happy to report that there were no tears at hourly care drop-off and I cranked out a fast 5K and got out of there. Sometimes you just need to sweat out a bad mood, ya know?
Things didn't get too much better once we got home, unfortunately. We have finally started to put Grace in her crib for bedtime and she's not a huge fan.
Since she was born we have always given her a bedtime bottle and let her fall asleep in our arms. Now it's more like our laps/laying on us. Then we take her up to her bed while she is asleep and she magically wakes up in her crib in the morning. We should have sleep trained months ago. Noted for future Baby #2.
Last night we did our normal bedtime routine:
Got in PJs
Brushed teeth
Read several books
Had a bedtime bottle
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and then it was go time. I took her into her room, put her into the crib, put on some soft music and said "Nighty night, time to go to sleep, I love you." The usual stuff.
Then there was crying.
Which kills me, just a little bit.
I sat outside of the door and waited it out. It only took about 15 minutes and she was asleep. Not too bad for a first try. We
really have to do this now, before she realizes that she is big enough to climb out of the crib. That is one reason I posted up outside of her door- I have these awful images of her trying to get out and hurting herself.
The story doesn't stop there. She wakes up in the middle of the night about 2-3 times a week. I usually wait 5 or so minutes to see if she will go back to sleep. If not, I go in, diaper change, bring her into our bed with a small bottle and we all go back to sleep. I usually move her back to bed after she wakes me back up with a swift kick to the ribs. (Those little feet are strong!!)
This happened last night (of course). She did have a very wet diaper and needed a change. I brought her into our room for a bottle and then thought she had fallen asleep. When I was carrying her back to bed she woke up, but I still put her back down in the crib...and she proceeded to cry for an hour. I got a nice little break in sleep from about 3-5am.
This morning when I went in to check on her, I saw that her beloved blanket had fallen out of the crib. Probably while she was holding it, standing up and screaming. I felt so nauseous...poor little thing! All she wanted
other than to get back into our bed was her blankie that had fallen. Ugh.
Worst Mom of the Year Award.
But we will do it again tonight. And tomorrow. And every night until it becomes routine. I keep telling myself that it is for her own good and that it is not normal to have to carry a fifth grader to bed. ;)
Not sure what to do about those middle of the night wake-ups, but I'd like to do something differently so that the same thing doesn't occur again.
Any suggestions? I got such good feedback with the timeout/discipline post, so I thought I'd ask you all again.
It's a new year people, and we are going to master the bed time routine and then move onto the bottle issue. Times are changin'! Of course Grace woke up this morning, happy as can be. That helps. It's a new, sunny day and I'm ready to rock it. This wasn't what I had planned on posting today, so I may be back.
Have a good one. :)
xo,
H