Friday, May 28, 2010
Long Weekend Plans
Tonight we are having a few people over to our place to grill out. There are a bunch of cadets here from West Point who are shadowing D's unit and we want to make sure they aren't just sitting at their hotel hating life because there is literally NOTHING for them to do around here. It should be fun. Don't think I've forgotten about my Mexican dinner just because of this distraction, it WILL happen in the next 3 days!
Tomorrow I plan on hitting the gym, getting a pedi, and going to another friend's house for a cookout tomorrow night. D and I might also check out the pool and do some lap swimming during the day. He's been several times, but I have been a bit hesitant to try on a swim suit lately...we'll see how it goes.
Sunday I'm going to head to Alexandria with a few of the girls to see SATC2. I'm pretty excited despite the mediocre reviews it has been getting. Whatev.
That's pretty much it for the solid plans, which leaves Sunday or Monday night free for my fiesta that will occur at Mexico Lindo. If I ever get any visitors (hint-hint!) this is on my must-do list, as it is one of the 3 acceptable restaurants in town. Mmm...I'm getting hungry just thinking about it.
One week from now we will know if it's time to start investing in pink or blue! I can't believe it is finally getting close. Baby M moves around ALL the time. If I go for too long without feeling anything I've started to get nervous and think of tricks to get the little one moving again. This morning a little OJ did the job! Only 6 more days to take the poll and post your predictions. Blue is currently in the lead! I don't know what I am leaning towards, it will certainly be a wonderful surprise either way.
Hope everyone has fabulous lonnnggg weekends!
xo,
H
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Wedded Bliss...



xo,
H
POP!
By last night I was just plain exhausted. See, I do this thing to myself ALL the time where I push myself to go, go, go and then finally my body hits a wall and lets me know it's time to stop and slow down, usually by either sending me into a tear filled breakdown or making me act like a 7 year old with an attitude problem. Luckily, I've been having this happen for awhile and am finally starting to recognize the warning signs so I can try to correct the issue before someone (usually D) gets the wrath of my exhaustion.
By yesterday afternoon at work, I could feel it coming on, so I sent D a quick email saying that I knew we should be at the Date Night that his company was holding, but if I didn't get to a gym to sweat it out and then sleep I might lose it. I think he quickly got the message because his reply was so sweet that I started to tear up just reading it. (I was that in need of a nap...ugh.) It ended up being a wonderful afternoon- I got to go to the gym and came home to take the most long, hot, relaxing shower ever before dinner. I even took a pre-shower pic so you guys can see how bump-a-licious we are getting over here. Seriously, it came from nowhere over night!
After dinner I settled in on the couch and someone even did the dishes and took the dog on a walk all by themselves so I could rest. Ahhh, it's the little things that make me happy. :) I was in bed by 8pm- yes, you read that right- and got an amazing night of sleep.
Ohhh and here's the best part...
At about 4:30 am I woke up for my 3rd nightly pee run and settled back into bed. Baby M was going nuts...to the point where I could feel it from the outside. (Have I mentioned that I can feel kicks and movement from the outside now? Cause I can!) I knew D was semi-awake because we had just had to forcefully move Molly from in between our heads and send her back to the end of the bed. I grabbed his hand, put it on the spot where all the action was taking place and no more than a minute later heard a sleepy laugh. Success! He got to feel his first kick. :)
Today is a brand new day and I feel SO much better. I guess I have to just realize that I don't have as much energy to go non-stop for as long as I usually can. Just for fun, here is bad picture of today's outfit. Some of you may recognize this little number as the wool dress I wore with black tights to a holiday party a couple years ago. Can you tell I'm really stretching to find clothes in my closet that I can incorporate into my new pregnant life? Today I have it on with black stretch pants and flats. Probably inappropriate to wear in most office settings, but here you guys would have a field day if I showed you some of the "work attire" that I see walk through the door!

I love the belly! :) Hope every one's weeks are wrapping up nicely...I'm so excited for some time off here soon!
xo,
H
Monday, May 24, 2010
Pregnancy Week 20
Total weight gain/loss: +13.5. Whatever.
Maternity clothes?: Here and there. Today I'm in a non-maternity dress. During the weekend it is mostly yoga pants or shorts. Comfort is key!
Best moment this week: Having someone ask how far along I am!
Movement: Every day, multiple times a day. :)
Food Cravings: Fruit and veggies...and I hope this craving sticks around.
Stretchmarks?: No new ones yet, but older ones on my upper thighs are looking more pronounced. Yuck.
What I miss: Thinner legs.
What I am looking forward to: Having a lot of quality time with D this week...and of course our next appointment.
Weekly Wisdom: Meal plan, invest in low-cal desserts to have at home so that you don't have an urge to hit up the drive thru for a McFlurry...haha, or give in and do it every once in awhile, cause why not (they have "snack" sizes now)?!


xo,
H
Weekend Recap/ Week Update


Then I made my way to the magazine section to grab the latest issues of Real Simple, Fit Pregnancy, and Glamour. From there I went to movies and picked up Weeds, Season 5. I've already finished it, so it is probably going to make it's way to Virginia very soon, for those of you who are super fans. :) I grabbed some tootsie rolls for a treat and then headed home to hang out with my furball pal for the evening. It was fabulous and relaxing and everything I could have asked for on a lazy Friday.
Friday, May 21, 2010
Life Updates
Our anatomy scan ultra sound is exactly 2 weeks from today. In fact, at this time on June 4th we will already be out of the hospital and know exactly WHO is going to be joining our family in October. :) We might even get to start referring to the baby by name. Aren't you all getting curious too? We have our boy name ready to go (NOT D Jr.!) and are down to 3 girls names. This is big for us!
Speaking of the baby, s/he has been having a dance party all morning. This might be partially caused by the soda that I have been sipping on. ::Gasp:: I know, right?! I have been having some may-ja headaches the last few weeks (thank you Second Trimester symptoms) and have found that a couple sips of soda seem to kick them right away. Remember- caffeine is perfectly safe to have when you are pregnant. Doctors say up to 200 mg a day is fine (my single Dr. P has 28 mg), so I really can't feel guilty for indulging to cure a headache once in awhile. I still won't drink coffee or caffeine for any other reason, but I seriously feel less guilty drinking this than taking Tylenol (which is also allowed). Call me crazy.
I think I'll spill some details on my *good news* tease now...because as of today I have only 2 weeks left to work at my current job. Hurray!!! No, I didn't convince D to let me start maternity leave at 5 months preggo- this momma got a pretty amazing job offer. Let me clarify by saying it is actually a tentative offer, contingent upon my background investigation and paperwork getting the go-ahead, but there is really no reason to believe it shouldn't at this point. If all things are a go I will start on June 7th...if all things are not a go...well...I may have screwed myself over. So stay tuned for more news on that. I'd give you all more details, but I feel more comfortable waiting until I know for sure. I guess maybe maternity leave could start early? Keep your fingers crossed for me!
P.S. All of you who got investigation mail on me...you'll probably get it again. Pretty please be nice and help a sista out. Thank you! :)
D is out till Sunday night, so I am not as excited as I usually am for the weekend. I have plans to try to clean by myself (boooooo), reorganize my closet since 99% of things do not fit, get a pedi, groceries, and have some serious play time with the pup. Hopefully it goes by fast...haha, who says that about days off? We have lots of fun plans for next week and then the Memorial Day holiday coming up, so time should really move itself along. I'll probably have some weekend posts with all of my free time, so check back in if you're bored! I know I still owe you guys a few- I'm the worst promise keeper ever. I'm sorry, sometimes working full-time and building another human being keeps me busy. ;)
Have great weekends!!!
xo,
H
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Empty promises...
Let's try again tomorrow. I should have a less hectic schedule and that will bring us right into the end of the week. I still remember the other posts I owe you guys, no worries! Check ya later...
xo,
H
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Checking in...
Check out the site if you have some spare time and day dream with me...

Be back with more tomorrow!
xo,
H
Love Affair

I'll be back with a boy's room post later today, but seriously, I thought that this was more than worth mentioning. If you haven't tried Luna bars, take the plunge, cause guess who eats them? Me and Carrie Underwood. Isn't that reason enough? (Oh, and they're good for you...)
xo,
H
Monday, May 17, 2010
Baby Girl Room Inspiration
First things first, the baby's room is a cute little size. When you walk in there is a window against the opposite wall, a closet to the right, and the wall to the left is blank. The blank wall, with no windows, doors, or closets to get in the way will be where we paint our "accent" wall. If we Baby M is a girl, it will probably be a light green. Her crib will go on this wall.






I would also use light yellow as another accent color. I want her name in letters on the wall and I'm undecided on furniture color. White is very girly, but a nice dark wood would last through multiple children. I'm all about just having to change out bedding if the next one (in sevvverrrralll years) is the opposite gender.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Pregnancy Week 19
Time for pictures...


I love stretchy pants. These are folded down for the picture, but the belly stretches over mine, which is sooo comfortable, no awkward squeezing. D says I look like an old man with my pants pulled up to my boobs, and he's right, it does look funny.
Anyways, hope every one's week is off to a good start and I promise I will finally post house pictures in the next few days! :)
xo(xo),
(Gossip Girl) H
Friday, May 14, 2010
Weighty Issues

Thursday, May 13, 2010
Guess what, guess what?!
Last night, at 18 weeks 4 days, I was laying on the couch when I felt a *pop* and saw my shirt bounce up! It was a little spot below my belly button to the right, about the size of a quarter and it just literally went out and back to normal in about 5 seconds. I immediately put my hand there to see if I could feel it from the outside and of course nothing happened, but it was definitely baby movement. I guess my kid is into cartwheels or something?
I've been feeling him or her a lot on the inside for the past couple of days, but this was the first "outside" sighting. If D or I had been resting a hand on my stomach at the time of the movement, we would have felt it for sure. So crazy!
Keep it up Baby M, Mommy likes when you play!
xo,
H
P.S. I don't think D believes this really happened, but I promise it did! :)
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Random Ramblings
This week is moving right along. I've hit the gym every day so far after work and even made dinner on Monday that lasted us through last night. I did a Shepard's Pie recipe that I found from another blogger's site and it turned out just ok. I don't think I've ever had it before, so I don't really have much to compare it to. It kind of turned out like a thick beef stew covered in cheese and mashed potatoes. Anyone know if this is normal? D wasn't a huge fan and I was less impressed than I thought I'd be. Oh well. I tried something new so go me. I'm not going to post a recipe that was just mediocre, so better luck next time I guess.
Baby M is having major playtime today. I'm pretty excited to feel a lot of him or her again, because it's been a few days and hasn't been this often or strong in awhile. What are you doing in there, baby? Lately I've been on Team Pink and I don't really have a good reason why other than an extreme urge to purchase bows in every color and little outfits with ruffles on the butt. Don't worry, I'd be ecstatic to find out that I need to invest in some baby boy Polo's and mini Sperry's (yes, they make them...). I love the thought of having a little boy first to protect his future female siblings. We will find out in about 3 weeks and go from there. :)
Does anyone ever worry about their potential children liking their significant other more than them? For some reason I have lately- isn't that crazy? I mean, what is not to love about me, you know?! ;) But seriously, the dog clearly has a way greater love for D than me, and it drives me nuts. She snuggles him, kisses him whenever she gets the chance, and will literally try to push me out of bed so that she has him all to herself. It's ridiculous. I wish I could post some pictures of D on here to prove it to you, because I've caught her on camera several times. I'm sure I'm golden for at least the first 6 months to a year...I'll literally be a walking food supply, so that's gotta earn me some points. But what about after that?
I'm ready to leave work, but I still have a couple hours left, so I'm off to stalk some blogs and pretend to be busy for a little while longer. Apologies for the boring ramblefest. I have a better topic planned for tomorrow. :)
xo,
H
Monday, May 10, 2010
Pregnancy Week 18
How far along?: 18 weeks
Total weight gain/loss: Well, so much for waiting for 20 weeks to hit 10 lbs, cause I'm pretty sure our total weight gain is at 10.5 right now. It may have something to do with my weekend cook-off, so the new plan is to try to maintain. I'm going to try and make it to the gym as much as I can these next few weeks.
Maternity clothes?: Not all the time, but damn are they wonderful. Pretty much all bottoms are maternity. I could probably squeeze into non-maternity with the help of the Bellaband, but it's just so much more comfortable not to.
Sleep: Not too shabby
Best moment this week: Getting surprised by Mother's Day wishes. I didn't really think about it as a day I could celebrate yet, but I'll take it!
Movement: Not anything crazy. Feeling slight flutters here and there, but no consistency.
Food Cravings: Cranberry juice, Better Cheddars, green grapes
Gender: Less than a month. I can't believe you guys are split 50-50 on the poll!
Belly Button: Innie
Stretchmarks?: Nope (says prayer, knocks on wood...)
What I miss: Not much to complain about this week
What I am looking forward to: Feeling more movement, finding out the gender, deciding on names...
Weekly Wisdom: Don't feel guilty for sleeping in if you have the chance...who knows when you'll get your next lazy Sunday after the baby arrives. I don't do well without sleep, I get fussy and mean, so I'm trying to stock up on extra zzz's while I can!
Milestones: thebump.com says: Your fetus has become amazingly mobile (at least compared to you), passing the hours yawning, hiccuping, rolling, twisting, kicking, punching, sucking and swallowing. And, baby's finally big enough that you'll be able to feel those movements soon.
And onto pictures...


Weekend Recap
Here's a little recap of ours:
Molly came home from her lady surgery on Friday afternoon and was a little woozy. I may have laid with her on her dog bed and even shed a tear or two when she put her sad little head on me. Poor baby. After a few (or 12) vomming sessions she woke up Saturday feeling like a new woman and is back to normal already!
I came home Friday to a couple of unexpected packages on my porch. My MIL and SIL both sent me sweet Mother's Day cards and presents. I have some new maternity tops from D's mom anddd my favorite gift- an adorable box of some newborn must-haves from the seriously talented Toni! I will have to take some pictures of the little onesies and other goodies, but until I do, you can see her blog for a run down of package and some pictures as well. Thank you for such a wonderful surprise! :)
On Saturday we (okay, mostly D) did our weekly house cleaning and I think I might be starting to "nest". Not so much as in cleaning our house for baby, but for whatever reason I had a completely unnatural urge to cook up a storm. All weekend. I made Walnut Spice Muffins, a Spaghetti Bake for a family our unit is making meals for during a hard time, Roasted Chickpeas, Cold Pea Salad with Cashews and Bacon...and that was just Saturday. By dinner we were so full that we just rented a movie and had cereal. Very romantic. On a side note- renting "Brothers" when you have a husband in the military who has a brother named Tommy is not a great idea. We turned it off 20 minutes in.
Sunday I woke up to the smell of a pancake breakfast and a present from the daddy-to-be and Baby M. He scored major points. We hit the gym, went to the PX for Starbucks and to check out the baby section, and then made our way to the commissary for some groceries. We had a couple that lives down our street over for dinner and I got some more cooking out of my system. It was a fun night and great way to wrap up the weekend. I think it's safe to say I am quickly becoming a master of the "side dish" and need to continue working on my main course repertoire. I have 3 or 4 new dinners in line for this week, so I'll have to report back on the results and post any recipes worth sharing!
I'll be posting Week 18 this evening, so check back soon. Also, I had a request way back when for a tour of Casa de M, so I'll try to take some pictures this week and get something up so you all can see our little slice of paradise...
Have a great week!
xo,
H
Friday, May 7, 2010
Gloomy Gus/Debbie Downer...
I'm having a gloomy kind of day because it looks yucky outside AND my baby girl is at the vet getting her lady parts fixed. Poor, sweet puppy. :( We cuddled extra long this morning...before I made D take her to her appointment so I don't look like the bad guy. She gets picked up around 3 so hopefully all goes well and we have a nice, quiet "family" night tonight.
Sheesh. Imagine how our child's doctor appointments will go.
In other gloomy news, here is my list of pregnancy things that suck and no one warns you about. If you're not into TMI (it's not that bad, promise), please click the little X in the corner now:
1. Unless you are in the lucky 3% of women who get what is known as the "pregnancy glow" you will end up with acne that rivals a 14 year old Miley Cyrus fan. Guess which boat I'm in?
2. That acne is not confined to your face. It will migrate to random places, like the neck, collarbone, boobs, upper back, etc. Oh, and you can't use half of the skin products on the market. Nope. It's really great.
3. Although you are no longer bleeding each month, you will likely have to stock up on feminine products- specifically panty (eww- terrible word) liners. That is because things still like to flow in that area. Google: "snail trail" and throw up your lunch.
4. Your libido goes on a vacation. (Or apparently comes to visit with all of it's relatives for some women...)
5. You will spend more on toilet paper than you ever have in your life. You pee that much. Seriously, yesterday I got to 2.75 miles (roughly 25 minutes) on a treadmill before the pee feeling started to set in and I was excited I'd made it that long.
6. People give you their opinions ALL the time. Especially when you don't ask or want them. (If another person I work with tells me how small I am and rolls their eyes when I say I've gained almost 10 lbs I will punch them square in the face.)
7. That brings us to hormones. No amount of reading or research will prepare you for how crazy you will become. One minute you are so lovey your husband might ask if you are feeling okay, the next you might bawl during an episode of Glee...
8. Places hurt that normally wouldn't. No specifics, just random soreness or aches. Most recently that place has been my hips, which make it difficult to sleep on your side without waking up every hour on the hour...
Ok, that's all the complaining I can muster up for now. Looking at my whiny list makes me feel dumb for complaining when we're barely halfway through and I don't even have a belly that is substantial enough for people to realize that there's a baby in there. I'm going to go eat some cheese and grapes and cry at my desk...haaa, jk about the cry part (I'll definitely be eating), I'm going to procrastinate some more and plan my meals for the weekend! Mmmm...foodddddd, my true love. ;)
What's everyone else up to? Miss you guys!
xo,
H
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Feliz Cinco de Mayo!

I really need to vary my content to include more than just updates on my baby and dog, so I'll try to work on that. Any topics you want to hear about? Let me know!
xo,
H
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Pregnancy Week 17
Total weight gain/loss: After this weekend, I'm pretty sure I'm up about 9 total. My goal is to maintain and not hit 10 until about 20 weeks...cause it's going to start piling on at that point. Since vacay is over I'm going to say goodbye to candy and dessert for awhile...unless it is absolutely necessary. ;)
Maternity clothes?: About 25%. I can still wear regular shirts and dresses but all bottoms need to be worn with a BellaBand (an elastic waistband that covers my unbuttoned and unzipped pants or skirts). Please pray that my thighs stop growing by the day. Thank you very much!
Sleep: Pretty good, I just wake up to reposition and pee. I think I've gotten used to sleeping on my side and a pillow between my knees really helps!
Best moment this week: Feeling the baby :)
Food cravings: I got my seafood fix last weekend, so nothing really for now. (Thank God.)
Gender: One month away from the reveal!
Stretchmarks?: Not that I've found, but another awesome pregnancy discovery has been little blood vessels on my legs. Really cute.
What I miss: Running to my hearts content. I actually miss those 16-20 mile marathon training runs. I felt like my body was a running machine as opposed to a baby building one...which is still pretty cool. I've been terrible at working out the past couple of weeks, I'm looking forward to getting back into it and feeling good.
What I am looking forward to: Feeling more movement and having them get stronger by the week. I can't wait for D to get to feel them and experience the connection that I am feeling with our little munchkin. :)


So Week 18 here we come!
xo,
H
Miss me?
We had a great weekend visiting with my grandparents and mom, eating way too much amazing seafood, and relaxing in the warm weather. It was a well deserved break from reality, if I do say so myself. :)
Guess what else happened this weekend?
I felt the baby move! Actually, I felt it for the first time Thursday evening as we were starting our drive. Maybe the sugar filled treats that I "needed" to stay awake helped out with that one? It was the coolest feeling, and I could definitely tell the difference from other random feelings going on in that area. I've always read that it feels like flutters or little bubbles, but honestly, it kind of felt like a hamster was rolling around in there. Beautiful description, I know. Since Thursday I've felt it every so often, some days more, some days less. It sounds like it won't get consistent for another several weeks and D won't be able to feel it for awhile either, so for now it's just a special little thing between Baby M and me. :)
I've also relaxed a lot more not finding out the gender until June 4th. I follow a ton of baby blogs and one that I stumbled upon last week was a new mom who found out at 18 weeks that she was having a girl. She went out and bought girly everything, had baby showers, etc. and then went in for a 3D ultrasound at about 27 weeks where she was told it was a boy! Ahh! Worst nightmare. So for now I'm happy to wait a few extra weeks just to make sure things are as obvious as can be! One month to the day...are you guys as curious as I am?!
Check back later today for another post. :)
xo,
H
P.S. Those of you that have gotten background check forms in the mail- they are for my current job. Please make me look good. ;)